Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Defining My Personality Type

Do you ever wonder how you may have changed over the years based on your actions and perceptions to events in your life?

When I was 24, I took the Myers Briggs Personality Test.  This test is very extensive and uses many different factors in determining who you are based on your answers to questions such as:

You believe the best decision is one that can be easily changed.
You prefer to act immediately rather than speculate about various options.

Those are just a couple of examples.  Your personal results will fall into one of several types.  I decided to take a new test to see where I am at and here are my results.

Humanmetrics Jung Typology Test™
Your Type: INFJ

Introvert(67%)  iNtuitive(12%)  Feeling(38%)  Judging(56%)
You have distinctive preference of Introversion over Extraversion (67%)
You have slight preference of Intuition over Sensing (12%)
You have moderate preference of Feeling over Thinking (38%)
You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving (56%)

Where have I changed compared to where I was before?

I have a need to protect my innermost self more than I used to.  This means I have a need to have an outward personality at times.  My Introversion is lower than it used to be but still distinctive.  It used to be an alarming 87%.

Intuition over Sensing has not changed.  I've always been balanced on this so I thought.  In reality, the test is accurate.  I prefer to follow my intuition before approaching anything I want to do.  I am surprised that it's only 12% because as I said I thought I was balanced on this.

A great man once told me I think too much and the more I allowed him to get to know me, I began to reshape the balance in my thought process.  This makes the current preference towards feeling as opposed to thinking very different from what it used to be.  I still think about this and my perception has changed of how I view myself.  I am still changing though so the moderate 38% is actually going to continue to increase over time.

Judging as opposed to the perception has changed but only slightly.  It's still accurate on my personality type.  When I previously took the Myers Briggs it was 67%.

Where does this leave me now?  Let's look at what this personality type is like in detail.

INFJs have an introverted "exterior" but have deep convictions and feel strongly about the things that matter the most in life.  This personality type is not easily led like a lamb either to the slaughterhouse.  It goes against the grain every step of the way and you can't easily fool them either.  This perfectly describes me as I am a no nonsense and straightforward person.  In other words, I don't believe  anything I hear or listen.

INFJs, also, are very selective in the friends they have and are few; which may well be only one to two friends they can truly trust and depend on.  They may well have five friends but out of the five only one person may have their true trust and friendship making the bond symbiotic transcending it with just a few select words.  These are more special than most friendships.

Apparently, INFJs have a natural ability to write, be fluent in language and language arts and ease in communication.  This makes sense to me because although I don't like dealing with the general public, so to speak, I do have a natural ability to use excellent verbiage in English when communicating with others in writing and in speech.  What I don't agree upon is that INFJs are most comfortable in public speaking and politics.  I personally turn away from these two.  We are also found in counseling but I find this hard to accept as well because I have a tendency to put up a shield in this way.

Points in Functional Analysis:

Introverted Intuition

• Enjoy a greater clarity of perception of inner, unconscious processes than all but their INTJ cousins
• Readily grasp the hidden psychological stimuli behind the more observable dynamics of behavior and affect
• Ability to deduce the inner workings of the mind, will and emotions of others
• Act with insight and spontaneously as unique solutions arise on an event by event basis.

Extroverted Feeling

• Vent the attending emotions in private, to trusted allies
• Aware of the treachery that can reside in the hearts of mortals

Introverted Thinking

• Thinking is introverted, turned toward the subject

Note: Introverted thinking may have qualities of being aloof.  This is associated with their attempts to be deeply focused on their subject at hand.  Everything around them becomes distant and any interruptions they receive could irritate them from being deterred.  This takes a lot of energy.

Personally, I do get irritated when I am interrupted but I often find myself closing my mind to the rest of world.  It would take a large sound; an emergency or something similar to break my concentration.  It can easily break my train of thought and I forget what I am about to say or do.  Sometimes, though, I am attempting to multi-task and this can be disastrous making me painfully aware of all the sounds around me resulting in a breakdown and get burnt out.

Extroverted Sensing

• Twice blessed with clarity of vision, both internal and external
• Possess inner vision (Unconscious)
• External sensing perception (Hold of worldly objects)

Note: Sensing is the weakest and most vulnerable arsenal.  They become so absorbed in their intuitive perception that they become oblivious to physical reality.  Refer to personal note in Introverted Thinking.

I began my self diagnosis of personality, as I stated before, at age 24 and to this day I continue to delve into personal life and growth of my personality type.  My career choices have been automatic and clearly are well chosen.  Since my personality type does well in language and communication, it makes sense that the personality types fall into the following:

• Social Work
• Education
• Law
• Librarian
• Arts
• Humanities

Those are just a few and the possibilities within each field are plenty.  I am at my most comfortable within administrative and clerical positions.

Marina Margaret Heiss, formerly of the University of Virginia, wrote "INFJs are distinguished by both their complexity of character and the unusual range and depth of their talents. Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally "doers" as well as dreamers."  It is perfectly clear to me that she understands my personality type.  I didn't discover until recently that I do seem to stem from idealistic views but what she doesn't note is that I also have a bit of realist in me.  It is true that my need for completing a task is a preference.  I don't give up on any given task until I succeed in my final achievement.  When I set goals, I am able to complete them.  It is very rare for me to give up.

I believe that we all have the capability to fully learn about ourselves and am glad that it is a continual process that never ends.  The older I get, the more defined I see my personality becomes.  There is always room for more personal growth within ourselves.

Note: The test I used online comes from the findings of Carl Gustav Jung in Analytical Psychology

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May 11, 2013

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Sources:
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp
http://www.humanmetrics.com/hr/you/careerchoices.aspx?EI=-67&SN=-12&TF=-38&JP=56
http://typelogic.com/infj.html


Friday, November 22, 2013

The Precise Moment

The sun has just begun to break on horizon but he was already up by two hours preparing for this moment.  His piercing green eyes looked up for a moment to see the slight edge of the sun making its mark amongst the darkness of the looming mounds and will soon see its own reflection.  He had been waiting for this very precise moment and the look of determination he has is unwavering.  There was nothing in his way and should anything interfere he would not have another chance.  He furrowed his brown brows in a frown for a brief second, took in a deep breath of the morning air and slowly exhaled as he began to bend down to look into his 30 year old green duffel bag to look for the soft blue-green rag that he knew was there.

He was in the perfect spot and knew it as he had been eyeing the area for the past few months.  Very quietly and gently he picked up his piece that was resting up against the tree as he began to wipe it down lightly from one end to the other.  In the left breast pocket of the tan and green windbreaker he is wearing sits the one and only silver tipped copper he would have at achieving his determined goal.  Failure is not an option as he has been preparing for this the past month.  


Living in the surrounding area for over 45 years, he has adapted and blended in extremely well.  The ability to wake up in the mornings without an alarm to see the sun rise brings complacent expressions to his face every day and today's only exception is the mission at hand.  As he listens intently to the sounds around him, he closes his eyes briefly to determine from which direction each one is coming from.  An occasional bird can be heard as it greets the early morning.  The left corner of his mouth raises slightly as he crinkles his eyes a bit and thinks to himself it's almost time.  Mischief dances in the light of his eyes as he reaches for the chair and without a sound moves it closer to the trees that will strategically obscure his position without blocking his vision of the intended target when it appears.  Nestling into the chair, he takes out of his breast pocket the silver tipped copper piece to drop it into the open action of the blue 22 inch steel.  Normally, he brings his black, long haired companion but not today.  Drawing up his left foot, he lets his ankle rest on his right knee as he places across his lap the seven pound piece.  


While watching the sun begin to crest just above the peak of the mountain tops it begins to drop a reflection of itself across the tranquility of the valley.  It is at this precise moment that his wait is just about done.  He sits up straighter in the seat as his eyes scan across the water and his grip tightens above the stock into the trigger guard while pivoting the muzzle to point towards the bank on the other side of the riverbed.


Slowly, a brown figure brushes the trees enough to capture his attention.  In slow motion, he rises as he eases off gently the safety while beginning to deftly point the barrel towards the figure as it starts to come out to the bank for a drink.  Slipping his finger into the trigger, he positions himself as he watches her ears twitching for unusual sounds.  Finally, as she brings her head down and her tongue becomes wet, he gently squeezes all the way ejecting the silver tipped copper piece to travel down the barrel towards the muzzle at its intended aimed target; the deer.

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Respect Yourself First - It Goes A Long Way

"I can't respect anyone who doesn't respect themselves first. If you can't respect yourself enough to take care of you first, then you have no business trying to gain the respect of another person and their trust."

I made that statement today and I believe every last word I uttered.  It leads me to state as follows:

• If I can't respect you, you will never gain my trust.
• If you can't respect me, I won't respect you.
• If you can't respect yourself, don't expect a pity party.  You put yourself into the predicament you have.

How to respect yourself:

• Stop dwelling on the past
• Stop being negative
• Wake up every day with a positive outlook on the day
• Take care of your health
• Stay out of bed during the day if you don't work
• Keep yourself busy with activity that will give you a better rest at night
• Help yourself first so that you can be more useful to others
• Be yourself - Don't try to be what you are not
• Get involved with organizations in your community that you support
• Meditate once a day

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Autumn Around My Home

I've recently started using the android phone at a whole new level as a tool.  It's actually easier for me to use it for video as opposed to my actual camera.  My camera offers more options, obviously, and better stability; but the thing is that the camera on the android phone allows me to do instant uploads to YouTube and Facebook.  I can't do that with my regular camera.

I have stated before that autumn is my favorite time of year and it's the only time in the year when I truly come alive to be outside enjoying the season.  Since this is the case with my personality, I have decided to feature my home and it's surroundings bringing you into my world a little bit more than what I am used to.

WHAT TO EXPECT:

Bedroom View of Autumn
- Parking Lot View behind my building with trees in full autumn bloom.


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Front & Side of Property in Autumn 
- Parking Lot Tree from north end from front view
- Pine Trees directly in front of apartment
- Entrance of Apartments
- Trees in full autumn bloom from entrance view


I really enjoy doing these videos and sharing this part of world with everyone else.  You will see with time my personality shining through what I share.



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Cooking with Rigatoni

Cooking with rigatoni is something different that I don't normally cook with.  It takes me more time to decide the type of meal I want to create as it does not go with just anything.  I decided to make a double dish entree and the results were scrumptious.

Rigatoni in Chili with Beans

Ingredients: 

- 1/2 pound Rigatoni Pasta Noodles
- 1/2 cup of French Green Beans
- 1 can of Chili with Beans 
- 1/3 cup of chopped White Onion (Yellow onions are okay.)
- 1/3 cup of sliced Carrots
- 1/4 cup of chopped Green Onions
- 1 clove of Garlic, diced
- 1/2 of a medium Tomato, sliced and diced
- 1 cup of Tomato Sauce with Basil and Garlic
- 1/2 teaspoon of Oregano
- 1/2 teaspoon of Basil
- 1/2 teaspoon of Thyme
- 1/2 teaspoon of Seasoned Salt (Morton's is used.)
- 1/2 teaspoon of Olive Oil

Personal Instructions: 

- Boil and drain rigatoni pasta noodles
- Stir fry the onion, green onions, tomato in olive oil
- Once the onions, green onions and tomato soften, add the chili with beans 1/4 at a time to blend.
- Add the oregano, basil, thyme and seasoned salt
- Add the carrots and tomato sauce
- Bring to a boil and lower the heat to a simmer.  Leave covered for 20 minutes.
- After the 20 minutes, bring to lowest flame/heat and wait an additional 10 minutes
- Turn off and leave covered for 5 minutes before serving

Note: You can use chili without beans, if preferred.

Side Dishes: Serve with a Garden Salad 

Rigatoni with French Green Beans and Spinach in Cream of Mushroom

Ingredients:

- 1/2 pound Rigatoni Pasta Noodles
- 1/2 cup of French Green Beans
- 1/2 cup of Soy Milk
- One 12 oz can of Cream of Mushroom
- 1/3 cup of shredded fresh Spinach
- 1/2 teaspoon of Thyme
- 1 slice of Provolone Cheese cut into strips

Personal Instructions:

- Boil and drain rigatoni pasta noodles, and set aside
- Bring to a boil the cream of mushroom with the soy milk and thyme.  Lower the heat to medium-low once well blended
- Add the provolone to the cream of mushroom and stir until it's melted completely
- Add the rigatoni a little at a time and mix well until all pasta is covered in the sauce; continue to simmer 
- Add the green beans and spinach and blend until all is well mixed 
- Cover and leave on low heat for an additional 10 minutes
- Turn off and leave covered for 5 minutes before serving

Note: You can add croutons in the last 5 minutes of cooking.

Side Dishes: Serve with a Garden Salad or Tomato Soup

* Both of these dishes done at the same time take no more than 30 minutes to prepare and serve.  

Dinner was served with a small glass of chardonnay wine.  










Dessert: One serving of Triple Chocolate



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Friday, November 15, 2013

Should I Disappear

... know that I loved you well

Should I disappear, rest assured that whereever I go, you are with me.  Should I disappear, and I left no forwarding address, don't worry about it for I know where I am going.  Should I disappear, don't think for a moment that it was about you.

Should haves have become a regular thought a process as of late.  I should have done this.  I should have done that.  This never should have happened.  That never should have happened.

What holds you back?  What are all the "if only" but regrets upon looking back?  Should I disappear?

You are surrounded by people that pass you by and, as you look into their faces, you only see through them like a glass to see the other side seeing nothing; but yet you do.  You are looking dead ahead without turning your head; without connecting with their eyes.  You believe that the minute you allow yourself that moment, they will know what you are hiding.  Should I disappear?

The people who know you never call.  You don't wonder why and yet don't even bother to call them to see how they are doing.  You wonder if they even care and the desire to call is even lesser.  The ones you know then become as strangers as they forget who you are, how you are and what you like.  Should I disappear?

The thought of disappearing continues to show up and, the more it appears, it lingers longer every time.  Is it an escape?  Is it an avoidance?  Is it even rational?  In the mind's eye of the person who is processing these thoughts, they believe that it is rational.  It's not conventional but to them it is.  Everyone defines differently where the line is drawn and to the person thinking of disappearing has lost the location of that boundary.  The main focus goes directly to that same thought; to disappear.

The behavior analysis of such shows clearly that the person, you, is reaching that breaking point; a nervous breakdown.  It can lead to psychotic behavior.  The person becomes withdrawn and depressive.  If the person, you, is already an introvert then the damage is harder to detect and studying the behavior becomes more intent.  It would take a person thinking out of the box who knows you and is not involved to see the difference.


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Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Bridging The Timeline Of Trust

Trust is the one thing that takes time to build between any two people.  That trust can be between a family member, a co-worker, a friend, an acquaintance and even your landlord.  When we hand over our trust it is something that we should not carry in our hands to where it can fall and break like glass.  That leads to too much heart break because it is not protected.

Once you bridge the gap of time and realize you do give your trust to someone you know, you should be able to look back and notice a timeline.  If that timeline isn't there, then you really haven't accomplished you thought that was there.  This is why in today's society people don't easily open up to others very much.  As much as we all as human beings want to share with others, we keep ourselves guarded and, thus, that heart is no longer unprotected.  It is kept behind thick brick wall.

The timeline is truly important and I will tell you why.  You can't possibly be able to absolutely trust anyone within a few weeks time.  Bridging the gap of trust is in actuality a continual process in our life span.  At any given time, the persons that we love can fail us and the trail of broken glass can be a long road.

Think long and hard about that timeline because it is always going to critical over a lengthy period whether or not that trust is truly there.



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